About 10 years ago, I had been in this grownup land for a few years. I looked around at my fellow grownups. They fell into two categories:
- Those who were very determined to make their
dreams happen they had a very clear vision for what they wanted out of life. They
had a plan to make that happen. - Then there was the more populated group which
was people who had kind of settled for life as it had become. They gave away their
dreams or put off for the future. They had just settled into what was kind of a
subpar version of what they may have dreamed of as a kid.
Ever since I began paying attention to those grownups around me and I’ve been on this journey of creating the life that I want and deserve, I have recognized that there are these key things that I believe all grownups should know, especially those who come from dysfunctional family systems.
Here are the 7 things all grownups should know. 1: You are not alone. 2: You caused nothing. 3: You control only you. 4: You have one job. 5: Your future is undefined. 6: You turned the key. 7: You already know the path.